You are never going to regret going for more RAM but if only running Rosie it seems pretty efficient. I went for the 8GB purely because it gives more software options
Your Lyr should work just fine as a USB DAC connected to an RPi 4. In terms of RAM, Ropieee is a very light piece of software and will work with even a 1 GB RPi 4.
There is no reason to get a Pi with more ram, as RoPieee won’t use it and doesn’t need it to run well. (I have measured ram usage over time, using a mixture of pi3, pi4, w/ displays, XL and so forth.)