I assume you know this link which describe a simple method for room correction with Roon using RTA.
Well, it depends if you want to correct the full range or only bass. If mids/highs look ok when it’s better not to correct than to correct. If possible in the mid/highs try to apply the same correction to both speakers to preserve imaging.
Important: REW’s house curve is only used to set the target correction, and is not an actual correction. My personal preference is to implement the house curve in REW. This post can help to calculate filter parameters.
I am using the convolution engine as it’s exhausting to copy all parameters in Roon DSP, especially since Roon 1.6 (nice UI for DSP overall, but PEQ s*cks). I have ran some test and the outcome is strictly equivalent between REW generated convolution file and Roon PEQ implementation. Convolution is more costly in terms of processing but usually not an issue.
Moderation is de rigueur. I never go above 4dB.
Well it all depends on the level of your recorded sweep! Don’t bother. 83dB is a bit loud for an acoustic measure, maybe try to stay between 75 and 80dB.